...It has been written that humans spend 95% of their time defending their point of view!! That means we put so much emphasis on our OUR BEING RIGHT…. And not necessarily DOING RIGHT. Being right could just possibly be the #1 downfall for each human being. Being right means justification, putting oneself first, and making it known that one is right. Doing right is quite different. Doing right has nothing to do with being right. Doing right has to do with ethics, integrity, and caring!! Doing right is not done for the glory, for the credit, or for the ego. Doing right is following a mission, a purpose, a reason for being…and it is done selflessly. Think about all that you have done for the “Doing Right” reason. Remember how you felt when you were doing right? And most of all, see the ramifications of what happens when you are DOING RIGHT!! The next time you get caught up in the Being Right, take a look and see what can be done to change it to Doing Right. Life and all its magic comes to us in the DOING….and from that, ALL ELSE FOLLOWS!!!
From the inside….
Dr. Ron Oberstein