So I have not “dated” in a long time. Probably almost 2 years now.
And in the last month or so, I have gone on a lot of dates, well, in comparison.
And it is fun.
I am meeting a ton of people. Going out, having fun, doing things.
All things I normally don’t do.
I haven’t gone on more than 1 or 2 dates with the same person. But all the same, it is still fun. I figured, maybe I don’t know everything. Maybe I cannot figure people out and if they are my life partner before I even have met them.
Now, sometimes, I know they are not it. But if there Is doubt, if someone is in the middle, I go out on a date or two with them, to see.
So far, those few dates have ruled most people out. : )
So what is the biggest thing I have learned in dating?
That people don’t like to be interviewed. (unless they like to and do think a lot)
That people just want to talk, and enjoy and be with other people or get right to the point of what this whole “date thing” is really all about.
I have been teaching seminars on how to deal with difficult people, and it has been so good for me to reinforce the fact that there are no difficult people.
Just different people – who communicate in different ways – and make decisions differently and care about different things
Until Next time