My thought process around love is different than what most people believe.
I wrote about making love in a previous article.
Love is something you make. Something you generate.
Love is not a response to the outside world that you cannot control. You get to create it or not.
Why it seems like Love 'happens' to people and they don't make it is:
People often create rules about what is love, or beliefs, or ideas, or whatever.
Then they play the game of forgetting that they made up a belief about what love is. (often because they think that is just the way it is. Not that they made it up.)
Then when their beliefs get met, they say they 'fell in love'
And, so you know, you can make love with a complete stranger.
You don't have to have special circumstances.
You can just generate love because you want to.
Who we are is love. Love is our source, is God. It doesn't take special circumstance to generate love.
That is when life becomes fun.
Being loving towards everyone just because.
Then someone asked me, can you make love to a hooker?
But first, let me define what a hooker is. Hookers are some of the few authentic women. Meaning, some women have a price that must be paid, or a “thing” that must be met before they sleep with someone.
Hookers are the only ones who are upfront about what that ‘price’ is.
Some women the price is Love, some marriage, some if they think your cute, some if you took them out to dinner, some others have different prices, etc.
And since everything in the universe is energy; money, love, dinner, marriage, etc. It is all energy. Intrinsically, there is no difference between money as a price and love as the price.
That is why hookers are truly authentic. They are just up front in the beginning with what the price is.
But that is actually a whole different story.
Yes, you can generate love towards any human being.
Hookers are people as well. It is our judgments of them as bad or wrong that create barricades between people.
It is our judgments of anyone or anything that creates barriers.
Who are we to judge something as right or wrong, good or bad?
People think that they have to use their minds to judge right and wrong so that they can do the right thing.
Rather than being taught to listen to their inner knowing, holy spirit, higher self, God Self, or whatever you want to call it.
Your inner knowing will always do what is “right” without your having to use your mind to judge or evaluate what you should and shouldn’t do.
It knows all. It understands totality because it is totality. It is your connection to God within.
If you don’t go within, then you go with out.
And this is the best criteria to use of what you should and shouldn’t do. Because your inner knowing knows.
And from this place, you don’t have to judge what is right, what is wrong. You get to just be and experience the joy of life.
Your mind often goes and goes and goes. Thinking about all the stuff that will never be and isn’t really related to what is at hand.
Making a new habit of listening to your heart, to your inner knowing. Not to the voice chatter in your head that is constantly going.
In this will come freedom, peace, joy, love and tranquility that we are all searching for.
This inner knowing will show you that outside of our judgments of others, within our acceptance of all people, we can love them for who they really are. A child of God.