“Reflect upon your blessings, of which every man has plenty, not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.” -- Charles Dickens
What you focus on you will get more of in your life.
I see that everything you think or say is a big prayer to your creator. And your creator being all loving wants to give you everything you ask for.
So when you are thinking different or contradicting things, you get the sum of all those thoughts.
So if you are talking about how bad it is, or the bad things that happened to you, or feeling bad and depressed about the bad things, you will get more of those bad things.
If you are happy and looking at only the good things that happen, and if no good things happen, focusing on the good things you want to happen, you will get more of them.
This quote sums up all of that, if you really stop to look at it.