Figure out how the people in your life want to be watered, and water them that way. When you do, your relationships will become amazing.
When I talk about relationships, I mean romantic, friends, family, kids, employees, bosses, co-workers, etc. Everyone who is in your life.
What do I mean by watering? Read my insight of the week here
Then, when you ask the questions of people in your life to figure out how to water them, you will know exactly how to water them. And everything will inevitably get easier in that relationship.
If you water that relationship enough – It becomes effortless.
Now, if you enjoy doing the things that the other person considers “being watered” – that is when relationships become truly effortless.
You simply do what you enjoy, and the other person gets what they need. No work on your part. No effort. No struggle.
So if you are not in a relationship yet, look for someone who likes to be watered like you enjoy watering, and it will be an effortless relationship.
No work required. Just doing what you enjoy.