So many people know what they want, but they are scared to say it out loud, sometimes they are even scared to say it to themselves. Because what if they cannot get what they really want?
Ask yourself what you like, and then keep asking yourself why do you like that.
Eventually, most people come down to 1 or 2 words. This is what you really want. It is often something like:
Happiness
Enjoyment
Peace
Transcendence
Fun
Security
Surviving
Excitement
Sex
And whatever it is, that is what you really want. And there are many things that you thought you wanted, that are just an attempt to get you what you truly wanted.
So go ahead, ask yourself. What do you like? And then ask why? Why? Why? Keep asking until you get down to the core of what you want. |