Move yourself up at least to the next level of thinking. Check out the insight of the week for July 25th and move yourself to the next level more often.
Remember, right now you have a habit of making the choices the way you currently make them. So in order to make them differently, you will have to make a habit of doing it the new way. This will take some effort.
And it is worth every bit of effort you use to do it. Because it makes your life that much easier.