Deep Love Strategy
Are you in a serious relationship? Then you may want to know what causes your partner to experience being totally loved by you.
Everyone has a certain way they like to receive love from others. And that is usually not the same for different people. So when you ask these questions below, you can then give love to your partner the way they want it. Not the way you want to give it.
1. How do you know you are loved by someone else?
2. Can you remember a time when you were totally loved?
A specific time?
3. In order to know you are totally loved, is it necessary for you:
a. To be taken places and bought things or to be looked at with that special look?
b. OR that you hear that special tone of voice or those special words?
c. OR is it necessary that you are touched in a certain way or a certain place?
This will help people realize what they like.
And it can usually be summed up in 3 ways.
- Bought things/looked at
- Hear words
- Touched
An example of one of the ways these love patterns get crossed.
The guy has a verbal love strategy and the woman has a feeling love strategy. So the guy will tell his wife he loves her and his wife will touch him in certain ways. And neither of them will feel love because they are not getting it the way the like it.
So when you figure out which of the 3 your partner likes, make it a point to do that type more. And you can tell them what you like and ask them to do that more. |
