When thinking either or - Think both and get creative
So many people have this either or battle going on a lot when they go to make a decision. Or when they are thinking about stuff trying to figure out which is right. Let me let you in on a little hint. You can almost always get both options. It just takes some thinking and getting creative.
The problem is most people go out of their way sometimes not to have to think. So it require moving past the inertia of not wanting to take the time and energy to think about it and get creative, then you can usually have both options.