We often get mad at people in our life to try and get them to do what I want.
The funny part is, that doesn’t work.
Imagine I were to say to you.
You suck, I don’t like you and the actions you are doing. I am mad at you. But do you want to hang out?
You would be like – nope.
But if I were to say, I really enjoy spending time with you. I like your company and I would like you to stay home this evening and be with me.
Would you be a lot more tempted to say yes???
But most people try and get angry and be crabby when they are trying to get someone to do something they want, thinking guilt or whatever will help them get this.
So next time you are asking someone to do something you want, be nice, loving, and give them a reason why you want them to do it. The real reason why.