We often try and argue against reality. Say that it shouldn’t be this way, or that way, or it shouldn’t be like this or that. But you know what? Reality always wins. There is only practical steps you can take in light of what just did happen.
If you look back on your life (with enough time) doesn’t everything seem absolutely perfect in how it all turned out? Well guess what, eventually the now that is not the way you think it should be, will be something you are looking back on in the past as absolutely perfect.
So start remembering this when you are arguing with reality (and losing, because you always lose when arguing with reality) that this is perfect, and start looking for ok, this is just how it is, now what do I do?