Life is not always as it seems. We think that our perceptions and our views of the world are the way the world is. Things like:
Men are ___________
Women are ___________
The world is __________
People are __________
Almost any “statement” that contains an “is” or an “are” is just a perception. The world is only that way because you create it that way as your world.
This is good news because if there is anything you don’t like, you can change it because it is not the way it “really” is. It is just the way that you see it currently.
Now remember, you have lots of years of programming that makes you think otherwise. So you have to undo those years.