So we as humans have this uncanny ability to make up meaning about everything that is happening.
I have an acquaintance. She is constantly telling me how I am feeling and what I am thinking. And I find it so amazing, because then when I disagree with what I am thinking or what I am feeling, she doesn’t believe me. And not because she thinks I am lying, but that I am not sure what I am feeling.
Amazing, she knows better than me how I am feeling. She knows what thoughts are in my head more than me.
She is making up meaning about the actions and meanings I am doing and saying, and even believes them to the point of me contradicting that meaning.
We think we know what is happening, the meaning, the person’s intentions.
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It can be tough if you don’t like changing your beliefs to suit the new facts. Or don’t’ want to look at your life honestly.
What I say is that if you are willing to look at your life honestly, want your life to change and be better, and are willing to be there the entire time, it will be one of the most amazing experiences of your life. Powerful.